How to Give a Hand Job

Giving a hand job is always thought of as second rate sex, but going about it the right way can make that old hand job a very exciting part of your sex play.  The reason hand jobs are thought of as second rate may come from your younger days, when you were out with a girl, trying to get laid, and all you got was a hand job.  The next day around all your buddies, you may have told a different story, but just the same, it was a sexual experience.

Give a Hand Job

Not knowing how to give a handjob is very common. Lubrication as always is key. For safe practice, we recommend the use of a condom too. Lots of lub will make things better. Using your hands for any kind of sex can greatly enhance the experience for everyone involved, whether it is for foreplay or for the main event. Your hands are the most versatile part of your body and when used right to give a handjob, can be one of the most sensual parts as well.

Some may think a handjob is for those without the means to have ‘real’ sex. We would have to disagree. Using your hands for a handjob, or for other sensually stimulating activities is an integral part of good sex.

The first concern is always a matter of size. Is it large or  small? Somewhere in between? No issue has ever received greater  attention than the size of a man’s penis. Man’s obsession with cock size is probably a mental vestige of his primitive primate past, but as far as human sexuality is concerned, it’s a waste of time. A large penis doesn’t have any effect on a woman’s physical enjoyment unless she has a deep-
seated psychological attachment to well-endowed men.

How about its shape? Is it curved like a boomerang or is it straight like an arrow? Does your fist fit around the spongy mass of the shaft? Does your hand completely engulf it? This is good because you can squeeze it all at once. But don’t be an organ grinder. Be gentle, yet firm. If the penis has an unusual girth, your hand may not completely encircle it. In such cases, try both hands to insure you don’t miss any of the tender areas while stroking.

Endless Vagina

Be sure to have well-oiled hands for this one - it can be uncomfortable for him otherwise, instead of ecstatically enjoyable as it is intended to be. Curl your hand around the end of the penis, not too tightly at first but firmly enough that you can feel the hardness. Slide your hand down the penis shaft and just before the glans appears on the other side of your fist, bring the other hand in place over the top of it to repeat the process? the first hand will continue to slide all the way to the bottom of the penis. This feels to him as if he is penetrating an endless vagina? he won’t last long!

Head Stroke

Again, very oily hands are called for here. Hold his penis in one hand and using the palm of the other hand (again well-oiled) slowly and gently massage the head of the penis in a circular direction - it doesn’t really matter which way but reverse direction every now and again.