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How to get a guy to notice you
If you want to know how to make a guy to notice you fall in love with you, then this is not the article for you. This is for those who have noticed a guy and want him to notice her back (getting him to like you is a whole other story). Luckily, getting a guy to notice you is easier because it involves the use of basic social skills. You should be honest, direct, pleasant, and reasonable.
Steps for how to make a guy to notice you
The best way to get a guy to notice you is to notice HIM. Let him know that you\'re interested in him by giving him a flirty smile. Be confident and believe in your incredible pulling-power. Feel beautiful and you will look beautiful. feel popular and you will seem and BE popular. Get on with it, girl , you rock! :D
Other steps for how to make a guy to notice you
Be sure that his attention is what you want. Don\'t try to get a guy to look your way just because you want attention and you want to feel good about yourself. You don\'t want to lead someone on. You could end up in a very awkward or uncomfortable situation--see the Warnings below.
Be yourself. Everyone probably says this, but it\'s true! No guy wants a girl to pretend she is something she\'s not. Any guy who wants a fake kind of girl is not a guy whose attention is worth having. Resist the temptation to put on a show or to do anything that just isn\'t you just to get his attention.
Get a new look. Don\'t change who you are, just try something different. Try a new hairstyle, new clothes, etc. It\'s a good idea to change things up once in a while, just because variety\'s the spice of life, and it might help you catch his eye. Try being that tough girl who is different from all the other okay looking girls giving him the eyes, because beauty is common, but a good outlook and a great energy are very rare.
Smile and make eye contact. Whether closed-mouth or open-mouth, do it. Unless it really makes you feel artificial, learn how to shoot people a reassuring smile, letting them know that you\'re a happy and confident person who wants to enjoy life. The idea is to communicate that you\'re inviting their company.
Flirt. Do it as little or as much as you want, but remember that too much flirting (especially with other guys) will likely get him to take notice, but perhaps not in a good way. If he reacts and you don\'t think its real (he\'s just doing it because you\'re there and you\'re a girl and he thinks he can do better, let him know he can\'t). If he is faking it, call his bluff and say something that makes him know you don\'t think he is \'all that\'. For example, if he comes close, pull a face and offer him gum. This will unbalance his ego.
Try to be around him often. Such as sitting near him. Take interest in the activities he\'s interested in, not just so that you can get near him but also so that you can get to know him better and so you can broaden your own horizons. (But never pretend to love something you don\'t even like just because he likes it! Although most guys find this cute, when and if they ever find out, it can be painful for you, and usually unnecessary.
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