How to have sex

Ten minutes before dinner is being served probably isn’t the best time to begin a Tantric sex session. Ditto on any rollicking tickle sessions involving sexual role play with feathers or blindfolds. The holidays may be the perfect time to work on your ability to move fast through your sexual paces. How to have sex begins with quickies may be the order of the day. Don’t worry so much about introducing new (possibly holiday themed) moves into your sex. Stick with the tried and true sex techniques you know will work, and work quickly.

Be Charitable - Don’t Expect Mind Blowing Sex

We are so goal oriented when it comes to sex. The sexually enlightened want their orgasms, they want them now, and they want them their way. But ‘tis the season for giving, and this may be a time to lower expectations, and focus on getting what you can, and not demanding the complete symphony when a single aria will do (but avoid any opera singing…that’s a dead giveaway).

Use Distraction Methods, Everyone Knows, But They’ll Appreciate the Effort

Steps for how to have sex

If you’ve got a radio in your room, turn it on. If you know that a moan is inevitable from your partner, do them a favor and mask it with a lot of loud unnecessary coughing. If you’re stuck in a small house, it’s likely that everyone knows what’s up, but there is probably a family member or two who will appreciate your attempts to be discrete.

· Talk about it with your partner-to-be well before hand and know that you are both sure. If there are any doubts, stop here, abstinence in a relationship is normal and "OK" this you should know if you wanna learn how to have sex...

· Go over your birth control needs and options and make sure that you have waited long enough for the choice you make to be effective. Consider talking with a friend or family member about their experiences.

· Use a condom no matter what other birth control arrangements have been made and regardless of what your partner-to-be tells you about his/her sexual history.

· Do not be drunk, on drugs or otherwise unable to make an informed decision, and make sure that your partner-to-be is in a decision making state.

· Make sure that you care about your partner-to-be and that you are not "doing it" for reasons other than what YOU feel. Looking cool, fitting in or just wanting to lose your virginity are not good reasons how to have sex.

· Go somewhere comfortable, quiet, private and (preferably) nice. Choose a place where you are unlikely to be interrupted.

· Don\'t think too much about how nervous you are, relax and take a deep breath. This should be something you WANT to do.

· Spend a long time kissing and caressing your partner. This is called "foreplay" and how to have sex begins with this only. The more there is of it, the better.

· Talk to your partner, say kind, gentle and loving things. First say with words what you are about to express with your body.

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