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I`ve been hurt many times when falling in love and i don`t want to fall in love again and i`m seriou
Category: Love
Answered By aaren
Asked on 2008-03-11 05:13:35 | 3 answer(s) |
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u cant run away from love.... its everywhere, so the best thing to do is just face it whenever u find it.... u might get hurt thats true, but u might also get to meet ur "special" someone
if u run away from it, u will be running away for ever.... its about taking chances.... u have to risk to achieve great things.... :)
so dont give up on everyone cuz' uve been hurt so many times.... ALWAYS expect a great thing to happen.... hang on to faith....
i might sound crappy to u, but i have noticed as soon as i loose faith, everything starts falling down.... but once i regain it, it all gets back to normal....
plus, not everyones alike,.... theres probably better person for u out there, and if u keep running away from love u wont get to meet that "special" one....
so, dont run away.... face it, as soon as u find ur love, u will realize what a great thing u have gained by risking ur feeling getting hurt....
Also, make sure not to get too serious.... study him/her for a while.... dont make a commitment.... since uve had experiences before try to look for any of those "signs" that will show u how the relationship is going.... BUT , dont try to "analyze" the person... it will just leave u in a mess.... just take it all cool.... and be a friend first, get to know how he/she is responding to u.....
its all about risking ur feelings and sacrificing time.....
i hope i helped u..... remember, DONT EVER LOSE HOPE
u will miss a great deal if u do so........ BEST OF LUCK, :) |
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my hubby had only split up with his partner after three months when we got together, I wasn't the ca
Category: Stepfamilies
Answered By aaren
Asked on 2008-03-11 05:20:22 | 1 answer(s) |
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You really need to stop worrying about other people are thinking about your relationship. You've been together for seven years already and have two beautiful children together. If there is still tension after so long, it's because none of you have let it go yet. You all need to sit down like mature adults and talk about things, especially concerning the children. both my parents are remarried and we are accepting of each toher and our life choices. We have problems, yes but after years of bitterness and hate we decided that the only way for s to be happy is to accept that no matter how it came about, we are now family and as part of a family unit you need to get along. It's a fact of life. It's time to bury the hatchet and move on with your lives. You don't have to love each other but it's not hard to be open and accepting of one another either. What you need to focus on is building a strong marriage with your husband first and dealing with your extended family later. If you do decide to sit down with everyone though, you should talk to your husband about what issues you want to deal with. You will also need to decide what issues you're willing to let go. Talk to your family and ask them if they are happy with your current situation. If the answer is no, then you need to ask them how you think you can all work to fix the situation. I know this all probably sounds good on paper but if you really want to make things okay in your family, you need to take action to try to make things better.
I'm not saying it's going to be all nice and calm and then you'll all break down in tears and have a group hug, but taking the first step is the first step. |
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Home remedies for hair any home remedies are good please also tell me wat they do can any one help m
Category: Home Remedies
Answered By aaren
Asked on 2008-03-11 05:33:59 | 1 answer(s) |
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here are some home remedies which are very good for dry hair. i had dry hair myself but when i tried these tips it was great! they've never been dry again!
Dont go out and buy anything expensive.
First: Purchase a mild Shampoo (To Clarify hair, I will explain why)
Second: TRIM your hair ends (May 1 1/2 to 2 inches)
Third: Here's the magic part: Mix olive oil, almond oil, coconut oil, avocado oil and a "little" honey, (honey u will have to heat so it can blend). Either leave on ALL day or all night (if all nite, DONT use honey)
Beat up on an Egg: Separate the white of an egg from the yolk, and whip the white thoroughly. Then add 1 tablespoon of water to the yolk and blend until the mixture is creamy. Next, mix the white and yolk together. Wet your hair with warm water, remove the excess moisture, and apply the egg mixture to your scalp with your fingertips. Massage gently until the froth is worked into your scalp, and then rinse the hair with cool water. Keep applying the mixture until it is used up. Continue to rinse until all of the egg is washed away
Go for the Mayo: Heat up one half cup of mayonnaise until it becomes an oily, white goo and apply to dry, unwashed hair. Cover your hair with a plastic bag and leave on for at least 15 minutes. Then, rinse and shampoo thoroughly.
Mix up a Tropical Treat: Mash one over-ripe banana (the blacker, the better) with a mushy, rotten avocado. Massage this exotic puree into your hair and leave on for at least 15 minutes before washing out…in the kitchen sink!).
Grab a Cold One. Beer can give your dry hair a healthy sheen. Before you blow-dry or style, use a pump bottle to spray brew onto your hair. The beer will leave your hair shiny and sleek and its odor will disappear quickly.
In addition to using these home remedies regularly to avoid dry hair, try the following preventative measures:
Avoid overshampooing. Shampooing can wash away the hair's protective oils, so try washing less often and use a mild shampoo labeled "for dry or damaged hair."
Condition regularly. Conditioners protect the hair’s cuticle layer from splitting from the shaft. Pick a conditioner that works well for your hair and use it after every shampoo.
Wear a hat. Too much exposure to wind and sun can leave hair thirsty.
Trim off split ends. The biggest problem caused by dry hair is split ends. Schedule a trim every six to eight weeks to keep fraying ends under control.
Ease up on the heat. Heat (in the form of blow dryers, as well as straightening and curling irons) can quickly dry out hair. Let your hair air dry occasionally. Try using plastic cylinder rollers to straighten hair by wrapping slightly moist hair under and around rollers for about 10 minutes. For curling, try using sponge rollers overnight or sleeping with moist braids.
Don't swim without a cap. Use a rubber cap to protect your hair from the damaging effects of chlorine. If you must forgo a cap, rub a spoonful of olive oil into your hair before diving in.
Another thing is also putting in lotion in your hair after you have gotten out of the shower and you can also put in lotion in hair after you have dried it.
Just rub some lotion on your finger tips and run it through your hair evenly.
Also, something that will help your hair is to take COLDshowers. What most people dont know is that if you take hot showers, the heat gets rid of the oils and other things that your hair needs to be kept healty and shiney.
Smash an avocado and mix with jojoba and peppermint oils. Make sure its really smooth you may want to put it in a food processor with a little water. Then apply some to your scalp and the rest on your hair. Massage for a minute or so then put on a plastic cap. Leave for 15 to 30 minutes. The avocado and jojoba oils will moisterize and the peppermint will stimulate your scalp to loosen any dead skin and open your pores. It will feel great. Your hair will grow better and won't be dry. :)
Hope this helps!
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I have a project due for school and its about teens around 13 and 14 dating....here r questions that
Category: Dating
Answered By aaren
Asked on 2008-03-14 05:48:58 | 1 answer(s) |
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1) You learn to socialize with your peers and get to know certain people better.
2) It may be more of a crush or infatuation and puppy love then a long lasting relationship, and they can change really quick, for instance dating for less then a week and then breaking up. In high school that rarely happens, and its more serious.
3) I personally look for good looks, personality, athleticness, intelligence, and some other good qualities.
4) I think some guys look for a good personality and someone they want to get to know better, and others just want sex, and to use you.
5) I think it's a phase so they can "fit in" because they think everyone else is doing it and if they arent then its not "cool" and they wont be accepted by their peers.
6) You get to know the person, date, hold hands, spend time together outside of work,school,etc. Then it just goes from there.
7) I would never use a guy, cheat, lie, abuse, and or do anything to intentionally hurt them. |
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I just recently became the president of the Enlisted Spouses' Club and have met several Officer spou
Category: Spouses
Answered By aaren
Asked on 2008-03-14 05:57:37 | 1 answer(s) |
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The Air Force base in which my husband and I are stationed at has a bi-monthly "social" for the Enlisted and Officer clubs. It's just enought to get to know them, without overstepping the club separations. Also, yearly we have a joint auction, where we split the profits 50/50. I would try to do a one-time thing first, something ALL of the spouses would be interested in. Contact the OSC president to make sure she is interested in interacting the clubs. I would have the first social somewhere off base, say, at a bar or resturant, so that way it's not just wives stuck in a room. If off base is not an option, have a bunko night!! That was a big success with our two clubs. Also, a cookie swap is a fun way to interact as well. Good Luck, and I hope all goes well!!
Also, our squadron has our own monthly socials with ALL of the wives enlisted and officers in the squadron. It's really nice, because our husbands (or wives) all are involved in the same area, so we have a lot in common, and our spouse's rank isn't even mentioned, let alone a factor in getting to know one another. |
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How do i break up with a guy(for personal reasons) ive been with (for a few months)without breaking
Category: Breaking Up
Answered By aaren
Asked on 2008-03-15 05:30:13 | 1 answer(s) |
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No matter what you tell him, breaking up will probably cause a dent in your friendship. The only way you can make this happen is if you constantly make an effort to talk to him after the break up. He's probably not going to want to talk to you, but you have to make sure you don't stop yourself. I mean, from there, only time will tell, because it all depends on how that individual is. From my personal experience, this method works. Although it did take quite a bit of effort to go out of my way to start a conversation with her whenever I get a chance. |
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What's with women with anniversaries on how long they dated and why do they get mad everytime the ma
Category: Anniversaries
Answered By aaren
Asked on 2008-03-19 06:51:55 | 1 answer(s) |
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I'm a woman, and I totally agree with you. I always laugh when I read about these girls talking about their 3 month anniversary, their 6 month anniversary, etc. Heck, I've even read about some girls celebrating their 1 month anniversary. WTF! I think it's just an excuse for them to receive presents. The funny thing is that they usually break up after 8 months. |
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My friend recently told me of his trial of womens panties. He said that they are more comfortable th
Category: What men like
Answered By aaren
Asked on 2008-03-19 07:05:33 | 2 answer(s) |
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I almost always wear women's frilly lacy pretty colored dainty thongs and bikini brief style panties. My wife caught me about 10 years ago while I was working in the yard and garden. As I bent over, the thin waistband of my scanty pink thong showed above the waistline of my jeans, and she asked me about it. I was a bit embarrassed to be caught, but I dropped my pants and showed her. I told her I've been doing this for years because guys like pretty things too, that's why we love women, plus they feel sexy. Now we go shopping together at Victoria's Secret or WalMart and she helps me get the right size and style. Some are a little wider and more elastic in the crotch and hold me in place better. Never tried a bra or nylons- have no interest in them. I'm very lucky to have such a woman. |
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I m just curious on how others feel on this topic.
How do you deal with selling?
if you havent s
Category: How...?
Answered By aaren
Asked on 2008-03-20 08:05:00 | 1 answer(s) |
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I have sold some horses, its always tough.
I interviewed the ppl, and I have rejected some and gone for those that offered less because I felt it was a better environment.
THere are some that make my stomach churn just on the phone and I refuse to even meet them.
But basically I interview them on the phone, I interview them at the time of trial and make sure the horse and buyer are compatible. Usually you have a good feeling by then and the deal is made. If there is ever a red flag, I do more investigation or call off the sale and I have done that before, but never if there was a deposit paid. |
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ok my boyfriend and wants a kiss for being together for 1 month...he wants a kiss on the lips. and i
Category: Dating
Answered By aaren
Asked on 2008-03-24 06:22:42 | 1 answer(s) |
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1] Defiantly DO NOT give this guy a french kiss, he should let you know when its time to do that, (if your ready for that) most likely you should just give him a normal kiss not a peck tho. lol.
2] Just do what comes naturally, you most likely are so don't worry about it.
3] If your guy starts to pull of then you should automatically just stop, ya know? You also should eat a mint!
4] A hug would be sufficient, you also could tuck your hands behind your back. If your sitting then place them in front of you and lean over and deliver the kiss. Hope this helps! P.S. Good luck on your first kiss. |
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